Divorced dad fantasy…I'd like to know what my wife thinks of our marriage / sex life, if that is possible?

Signifier: upright Four of Pentacles 67 at 37. 4 of Cups

suggests a time of feeling boredom or indifference regarding love life. While relationship lacks interest and weariness. Excitement faded and you may feel more like roommates. Sometimes requires exploration and experimentation. Without effort from both partners, relationship may be nearing its end

Crossing: reversed Empress 3 at 69 reversed

Empress represents a partner who smothers, controlling, alternatively unable to express feeling, or signal one's self-worth needs a boost. Without feeling worthy of being loved, it doesn't matter who you are with, will have difficulties maintaining relationship.

Crowning: upright The Emperor 4 at 28

control when it comes to Emperor, card means authority, regulation, organization and a fatherliness. The Emperor represents a strategic thinker who sets out plans he must see through. He is a symbol of masculine principle - paternal figure in life giving structure, creates systems, and imparts knowledge.

emperor desires to foster honor and discipline. He guides with a firm hand, following calling of crown above all else. Though he is a ruler understanding to reign is also to serve - he acts rationally and according to greater good of kingdom.

Base of matter: upright 6 of Swords 55 at 58

6 of Swords appears signals struggle is reaching its end. Possibly form end of relationship, alternatively putting a painful chapter of relationship behind you and reconciling. suggesting desire to leave past, and move towards an unknown, but brighter future.

Past: reversed Seven of Swords Card 56 at 31

Lies and tricks 7 of Swords tarot. importance remain cautious, especially if you’ve met someone new. You or someone in your romantic life can be dishonest right now, and worst possible cases, even unfaithful. If instincts have been telling you are being lied to you may need to confront and have honest discussion. If this has been you, consider long term consequences of actions.

kindest lie to spare feelings grow into big problems root cause not be addressed.

Future: upright Five of Wands Card 26 at 4

Action required when it comes to love life. relationship, there may be some small conflicts. Beware what initially starts off as playful banter turns into explosive arguments when either of you are stressed. It’s likely arguments here are not too serious.

Nonetheless, they will require some lightheartedness to remember how inconsequential to your happiness. Keep things playful.

How others view you: upright Eight of Pentacles Card 71 at 49

If you think about it, loving someone is like cultivating a skill. requires increased amounts of empathy, compassion, patience, curiosity and desire for self-improvement. Be proud in accomplishment, and lessons learned. If you’re in a relationship, you may find your lover is still surprising you, even all the time you have spent together. new are facets are discovered daily,

if looking hard enough. Maybe falling in love with their sweet kindness, seeing partner's passion erupt when confronted with danger, or violated their principles. Learning to appreciate new sides deepens love for one another.

How you see yourself: reversed Two of Cups Card 37 at 59

When reversed, Two of Cups balance was once now broken. balance an integral part of keeping individuals together, breaking it creates disconnection and discord. negative energy of two forces present seem to repel.

You finding small details which were not problems before are coming into play, signaling one party may have resentments.

A line of communication allowed and openly talk about disagreements has been cut off. worsening cycle of resentment and imbalance. Be first to open up, and you may find problem much easier to repair than you thought it would be

Hopes&Wishes: upright Sun Card 19 at 15

With Sun comes light, life and warmth. The Sun tarot love meaning heralds same relationship and your romantic life in general. There is happiness, celebration, and fulfillment.

relationship blossoming under light, bringing two closer together enjoying life’s blessings. There is likely harmony now, and use time to create closer connection with loved one.

Final outcome: reversed Ace of Cups Card 36 at 63

Some sadness and emotional upset signaled by reversed Ace of Cups. may stemmed from an argument or break up, leaving you to feel alone and vulnerable. card simply mean feeling a bit somber about current relationship, or perhaps having a temporary loss of faith.

Something blocking you from being able to experience, give and receive true love. You may not be meeting your partner, or others in general with open heart. insecurity is playing a strong role; we must all be able to love ourselves before we can truly love another person. Try and look inward, give yourself love you want before seeking in another.