wart wants lace, thrill, and frill to be visually turned on, and depends on fantasy. Like going to Mcd's stops entering, so lover can step into my car. he feels women who control cock plays to his fantasy. ur hand on cock essentially ur jacking him off, suck his dick while u manipulate what u want out of him. If ur jacking him off and working for a promise makes a prostitute. If he's eating, fingering, or fucking ur still giving him what he wants either way. ur doing all the work and for a limited time. he will do anything when cum dum and stupid which is good for a minute, but what happens when u stop getting what u want? After he experienced orgasm dick's shot for night depending on drug he's taken. don't call urself dominant if ur playing to his needs makes u a top working for ur needs.